Snack Like You Mean It: Power Foods for Perimenopausal Superwomen

Amanda Paige on October 29, 2025

It’s not that you’re lazy. Or undisciplined. Or suddenly “bad at mornings.”

It’s that something real is happening inside your body—a quiet, often misunderstood upheaval that starts to rewrite the rules of energy, focus, and stamina. Welcome to perimenopause: the hormonal dress rehearsal before menopause officially takes the stage. And whether you’re 39 or 49, if you’ve been feeling a mysterious kind of fatigue—one that no green smoothie or double espresso seems to fix—you’re not imagining it.

During the perimenopausal years, your estrogen and progesterone levels begin a slow, unpredictable waltz. This dance influences everything from your blood sugar to your sleep cycle, your metabolism to your stress response. The result? Energy that used to be on tap now feels… elusive. You might power through a work presentation and then crash by 3 PM. Or feel mentally foggy just when you need to be sharpest. It’s not just frustrating—it’s disorienting, especially when your career, family, and life still demand peak performance.

Here’s the part nobody tells you: it’s not about pushing harder. It’s about fueling smarter.

You don’t need another protein bar from the bottom of your purse or another lukewarm latte on the fly. You need real nourishment. The kind that sustains your brain, balances your blood sugar, and supports your ambition—not just your appetite. The kind of food that says, “I know what my body’s doing, and I’m meeting it with strength.”

This guide is your permission slip to stop surviving on fumes. We’ll walk through what to eat for actual, sustained energy—not just a quick fix. From power-packed meal prep to smart snacks and a grocery list you’ll actually want to use, you’ll walk away with tools to feel like yourself again.

Let’s stop running on empty. Let’s start fueling your fire.

Why energy feels elusive right now

In your 40s (or even late 30s) your body begins the journey of perimenopause. Hormone levels fluctuate, especially estrogen and progesterone, and this has a ripple effect on energy, mood, metabolism and more. MDPI+2University of Michigan Medical School+2

Here’s what’s typically going on:

  • Your basal metabolism slows down—so the same calorie intake may no longer equate to the same energy. MDPI
  • Muscle mass tends to diminish unless you actively support it with protein + movement. University of Michigan Medical School
  • Blood sugar stability becomes more brittle—spikes and crashes hit harder, leaving you fatigued or foggy. fitnessinspirationforwomen.com+1
  • Sleep may be disrupted (hello night sweats, hot flashes, restless mind), and poor sleep equals low energy.
  • You may find cravings (for sugar, caffeine, processed foods) increasing—not just for pleasure but because your body is asking, “Where’s my fuel?”

So your usual eating habits may not cut it anymore. Instead you need a strategy: one that sustains energy, supports your hormones and meets you where you are—busy, professional, doing so much.

The core pillars of energy‑fueling nutrition

Let’s talk building blocks (the fun part): what kind of food helps you keep thriving rather than just surviving.

1. Protein at every meal

Think of protein not just as “muscle food” but as “energy stability food.” It keeps your blood sugar steadier, supports lean mass (and thus metabolism), and helps your brain stay sharp. In perimenopause, many women under‑eat protein, which equals more dips. Dr. Jolene Brighten
Aim for ~20‑30 g per main meal. (Yes, that might be more than you’ve been doing.)

2. Smart carbs (complex, fibre‑rich)

Carbs aren’t your enemy—but the type and timing matter. Complex carbs (whole grains, legumes, sweet potato, oats, fruit) release energy more steadily, assist your gut (hello fibre), and help avoid those mid‑afternoon crashes. Medical News Today
Pair your carb with protein + healthy fat to really lock in sustainability.

3. Healthy fats & anti‑inflammatory foods

Your hormone‑factory (yes—you!) thrives on good fats: omega‑3s, monounsaturated fats, nuts/seeds, oily fish. These support brain health, mood regulation and inflammation control—especially as estrogen’s protective effects wane. Dr. Jolene Brighten

4. Key nutrients you don’t want to ignore

5. Consistency & timing

  • Don’t skip breakfast or let long gaps happen. Doing so = your body goes into “okay I might be starving soon” mode, which disrupts energy. University of Michigan Medical School+1
  • Make your meal‑prep count: when you’re busy, the easiest way to fail is to rely on reactive snacking.
  • Hydrate — your fluid needs may rise and dehydration = fatigue + bad mood.

Meal‑Prep for the Professional You

Because yes—you are busy. You’re juggling emails, conference calls, maybe kids or caregiving, late meetings, early mornings. Here are practical, realistic routines.

Sunday 30‑minute session

  • Grill or roast a batch of lean protein (chicken breast, tofu, fish)
  • Cook a large portion of a complex‑carb base (quinoa, brown rice, sweet potato)
  • Chop colourful vegetables (carrots, peppers, leafy greens) and store in containers or zip bags.
  • Hard‑boil 3‑4 eggs.
  • Portion out ½ cup each of mixed nuts/seeds in snack bags.

Sample “Energy Plate” for the Week

  • Breakfast (7–9 a.m.): Greek yogurt + 1 Tbsp chia seeds + berries + sprinkle of almonds.
  • Mid‑morning snack: Hummus + carrot sticks or apple + a handful of nuts.
  • Lunch: Mixed‑greens salad (spinach, kale) + roasted sweet potato cubes + grilled salmon (or chickpeas) + avocado + olive‑oil vinaigrette.
  • Afternoon pick‑me‑up: Whole‑grain toast + almond butter + banana or cottage cheese + mixed berries.
  • Dinner: Stir‑fry with lean beef or tofu + broccoli, bell pepper + brown rice or wild rice + sesame‑oil drizzle.
  • Evening (if hungry before bed): A small bowl of oats + ground flaxseed + walnut pieces — fibre + slow‑release carb + good fat.

On‑the‑go options

  • Bento‑style boxes: protein + veggie + complex‑carb all in one.
  • Pre‑chopped snack packs: roasted chickpeas, edamame, kale chips.
  • Smoothie: spinach + frozen berries + plant‑protein powder (or Greek yogurt) + flaxseed + almond milk.

Power Food Grocery List

Here’s your shopping list. Keep it somewhere visible. Every item supports sustained energy, muscle, mood, brain, hormones. Choose what fits your taste & region.

  • Lean proteins: chicken breast, turkey, firm tofu, salmon, sardines, eggs
  • Legumes & pulses: chickpeas, lentils, black beans
  • Whole‑grains: quinoa, brown rice, oats, wild rice
  • Complex carbs: sweet potatoes, squash, pumpkin
  • Leafy greens: spinach, kale, collards
  • Colorful veggies: red peppers, carrots, broccoli, beets
  • Fruit: berries, apples, bananas
  • Nuts & seeds: almonds, walnuts, chia seeds, flaxseeds
  • Healthy fats: avocado, olive oil, salmon (again), chia seeds
  • Dairy or fortified alternatives: Greek yogurt, milk/soy milk (calcium support)
  • Fermented/gut‑friendly: plain yogurt, kefir, kimchi (optional)
  • Herbs/spices: turmeric, ginger, cinnamon — little helpers for inflammation
  • Hydration: herbal teas, water, maybe coconut water for electrolyte boost
Power Food Grocery ListDownload

How to Make It Real for You

  • Commit to one “power meal” each day for the next week—one breakfast or one lunch with full intention (protein + smart carb + veggie + healthy fat).
  • Use a gentle tracking method: how did you feel 30 mins after eating? Energy up or down? Focus sharp or fuzzy?
  • Tweak one snack this week from something “meh” (e.g., a sugary bar) to something “good‑fuel” (e.g., nuts + fruit). Observe the difference.
  • Pre‑prep on Sunday (as above) so when Monday hits you are not scrambling.
  • Remember: you are not failing if one meal isn’t perfect. This is about progress, not perfection.

Takeaway

Your body is doing the serious work of transition right now. The hormones are shifting, metabolism is changing, your sleep might be off, your mood might be off guard—and your energy may feel the first casualty. But you’re not powerless.

When you shift from “eat whatever’s convenient” to “eat for sustained fuel for my ambitions“, magic can happen. Your brain sharpens. Your focus returns. Your mood stabilizes. And yes—your professional life doesn’t have to go on pause while your body recalibrates.

So go ahead—grab that grocery list. Prep one power meal. Celebrate the fact that you’re investing in yourself. Because you deserve energy. You deserve clarity. You deserve to thrive through this.

Action Step Now:
Print or screenshot the grocery list above. Circle 5 items that are new to you. This week, build one recipe around those 5 items. Let that one meal become your game‑changer.

You’re showing up—for your career, your family, your dreams. Now let your food show up, too.

Mindful Eating during Perimenopause: Turn Your Meals Into Moments of Power

Amanda Paige on October 27, 2025

It’s a moment of transition—you may feel it in your body, your appetite, your energy levels. Your usual eating rhythms might seem off, cravings can feel stronger, fullness may not arrive when you expect it, and you might find your mood tied to what (and how) you eat. What if one of the most transformative tools before you is simply how you eat, not just what you eat?

Mindful eating, combined with food appreciation and seasonal nutrition, can be your allies. These aren’t trendy buzzwords—they’re practical, grounded ways to bring your body back into dialogue with your food, your senses, and your inner wisdom. They help you shift from reacting to your body’s cues to listening and responding—which is especially important in this phase of life.

What follows is a deep dive into how to make eating a nourishing, intentional act: one that supports hormone balance, metabolic resilience, mood, and vitality. You’ll find actionable steps, helpful practices, and a guided meditation to integrate right away. And yes—you’ll want to keep reading.

Why the way you eat matters now

As hormone levels ebb and flow, your body’s signals around hunger, fullness, energy, and digestion don’t always behave like they did. Some shifts you might notice:

  • Appetite that seems to come out of nowhere—or that simply doesn’t register when it used to.
  • Cravings for sweet, salty or processed foods that feel more persistent.
  • Slower metabolism, increased fat around the mid‑section, or muscle loss creeping in.
  • Digestive changes, sleep disruption, mood swings—all of which affect eating behaviours.
  • A greater need for nutrient‑dense foods, especially for bone, brain, cardiovascular and gut health. (See review: “The Importance of Nutrition in Menopause and Perimenopause” ) (mdpi.com)

In short: the moment you sit down to eat isn’t just about calories—it’s about communication with the body. When you bring awareness to the how and why of eating, you start to reclaim that communication.

Research supports this: studies find that mindful eating is linked to lower intake of added sugars, improved eating awareness, and better dietary patterns. (ScienceDirect) Seasonal changes also matter—food intake, activity, body composition all shift with seasons (and this has implications for mid‑life women). (cdn.nutrition.org)

There’s a clear opportunity here: by pairing what you eat with how you eat, you shift from autopilot to empowerment.

What it looks like: Mindful Eating + Food Appreciation

Mindful eating is bringing full presence to your meals: noting how the food looks, smells, tastes; tuning into hunger and fullness cues; eating without distraction; making peace with your choices; honouring your body’s responses.

Here’s how you can bring it into action:

Before the meal

  • Pause for 1 minute: take a couple of deep breaths. Notice how your body feels—not yet what you’ll eat, but how you feel about eating.
  • Ask yourself: “Am I actually hungry? What am I hoping this meal will give me—energy, comfort, nourishment, connection?”
  • Serve yourself a reasonable portion. Sitting down with a plate you chose for yourself begins the process of ownership.

During the meal

  • Eat slowly. Chew deliberately. Pay attention to textures: the crispness, the softness, the chew.
  • Between bites, pause—put down the fork if you like—and check in: “What am I tasting? How full do I feel now? Is my body changing from bite to bite?”
  • Minimise distractions: phones, TV, multitasking all disrupt your ability to read your body. One quiet meal can change your relationship to all meals.
  • Honour each bite: savour it. When you enjoy your food, you often eat less (because satisfaction comes sooner) and your body gets more out of it—not just digestively, but emotionally and hormonally.

After the meal

  • Wait 10–15 minutes before deciding if you want more—your body often needs a moment to update.
  • Reflect in one sentence: “After that meal I felt ____, and noticed ____. Next time I will ____.”
  • No judgement. Just observation. Over time you’ll see patterns—not to shame yourself, but to strengthen connection.

Food Appreciation goes hand in hand. It means recognising the journey: the colour of the dish, the source of the ingredients, the effort (even if minimal) that went into preparing or selecting them. It means meals become an event rather than a closing act of a busy day.

When you build appreciation, your brain links positive emotions to nourishment—not guilt, not scarcity, not hurried bites. And that changes how you eat.

Seasonal Nutrition: Aligning with Nature’s Rhythm

When you eat seasonally, you automatically increase variety. You automatically support your gut microbiome with new fibres and phytonutrients. You automatically reduce reliance on processed, out‑of‑season or “anytime” foods that often contribute to metabolic and inflammatory stress.

Here’s what the research and practical wisdom suggest:

  • Nutrient‑rich seasonal produce tends to be fresher, fuller of flavour, and often higher in micronutrients. That matters when your body is navigating hormone change. (Nikki Durnford at Green Dene Nutrition)
  • Studies show mid‑life women’s body composition shifts with seasons: energy intake up, activity down in cooler months, and fat increases. (ScienceDirect)
  • When you combine seasonal eating with mindful eating, you harvest two powerful effects: high‑quality food plus enhanced awareness about how it affects you.

Here’s how you can translate this into your setting (for a tropical/sub‑tropical or Philippines‑type climate):

Wet/Cooler Season (or when you feel you need metabolically some grounding)

  • Root vegetables (sweet potato, taro, carrot)
  • Leafy green varieties available locally (e.g., malunggay, kangkong)
  • Fatty fish or local fish rich in omega‑3s (bangus, tuna)
  • Warming spices: ginger, turmeric, a little chili if your digestion is strong
  • Hydrate with herbal teas (e.g., ginger tea) or warm waters

Hot/Brighter Season (or when you feel you need cooling/lightness)

  • Fresh tropical fruits (papaya, mango, watermelon)
  • Crisp vegetables: cucumber, salad greens, fresh herbs
  • Light proteins: grilled fish, tofu, legumes
  • Infused water, coconut water, herbal iced teas
  • Meals with bright colour: orange, red, purple, green—each colour signals phytonutrients that support your body’s shift

Transition Weeks/Months

  • Mix both approaches: e.g., half plate warm roasted vegetables, half plate fresh salad
  • Try a new produce you haven’t used before—variety = microbiome support
  • Adjust based on how you feel (energy, digestion, mood)

Nutrient Priorities

  • Protein: Especially important now because lean muscle mass tends to decline and metabolism shifts.
  • Calcium + Vitamin D: Bone health becomes more critical.
  • Healthy fats: Omega‑3s help inflammation, hormone production.
  • Fibre + complex carbs: For gut health, satiety, blood sugar.
  • Phytonutrients: From colourful plants—which seasonality helps provide.

By building your weekly grocery list around what’s in season plus “needed nutrients,” you create a structure that supports mindful eating—not just doing the same foods every week out of habit.

Putting it all into practice: a 4‑week roadmap

Here’s a plan you can follow to make this real. Customize it to your life, schedule and local produce; the goal is progress, not perfection.

Week 1 – Presence Kick‑off

  • Choose one meal this week to eat with full presence (no screens, no rushing).
  • Before starting, take three slow breaths, set an intention: “This meal is nourishment for my body.”
  • After the meal, write one sentence: what I noticed.
  • Choose one seasonal produce item and include it in one meal this week.

Week 2 – Appreciation & Ritual

  • Before each main meal: pause, look at your plate, note colour/texture.
  • At your mindful meal: chew slower, put fork/utensil down between bites.
  • Introduce a small ritual: favourite plate, napkin you like, soft background (if time allows).
  • Shopping list: 2–3 seasonal produce items + focus protein + healthy fat + fibre source.

Week 3 – Balanced Plate & Body Check‑in

  • Every major meal: aim for lean protein + seasonal vegetable + complex carb/fibre + healthy fat.
  • Before eating: ask hunger scale (1‑10) and target starting when you’re ~3‑4, stop around ~7.
  • After the meal: check in again at 30 minutes—how do you feel?
  • Try one new produce/meal combination.

Week 4 – Reflection & Sustaining Habit

  • Review your notes: what patterns emerged? Choose one habit you’ll carry forward (e.g., the three‑breath pause, the utensil‑down between bites).
  • Share one mindful meal with someone (connection supports satisfaction).
  • Prepare a “go‑to” mindful meal: something you can pull together easily and enjoy repeatedly.
  • Use the short pre‑meal mindful eating meditation (see next) before your main meal for the week.

Pre‑Meal Mindful Eating Meditation

Here’s a simple but powerful ritual to do just before your main meal. It takes just 2–3 minutes and sets the tone.

  1. Sit down at your table. Set aside your phone (silent or face‑down).
  2. Close your eyes. Take three slow, deep breaths: inhale for 4 seconds, hold 1 second, exhale for 6 seconds. With each exhale, imagine releasing any stress or hurry.
  3. Open your eyes. Look at your plate. Notice the colours, shapes, textures. Think: “This food travelled to me.” Acknowledge the effort, the source, the presence.
  4. Place your hand gently on your chest or belly. Ask: “What am I actually hungry for? Is it food? Or something else—rest, connection, comfort, distraction?” Wait for the answer.
  5. Ask: “What do I genuinely want to feel after this meal? Energised? Calm? Full? Connected to my body?” Hold that vision.
  6. Quietly say (or think): “This is my nourishment. I receive it. I honour it. I listen to its effect on me.”
  7. Begin eating. Chew slowly, breathe between bites, notice how your body responds.

You can return to this meditation any time you feel rushed, disconnected, or simply want to shift the tone of your meal. It’s that moment of presence that anchors everything else.

Common challenges and how to work through them

Because real life happens. Here are some common bumps—and how you can navigate them.

Challenge: “I’m too busy/always multitasking at meals.”

  • Pick just one meal a week this week to practise full mindfulness. That small win starts the change.
  • Gradually expand to more meals if it works for you.

Challenge: “Eating slowly feels weird / I feel like others are watching.”

  • Remember: you’re doing something different for your body—not performance for others.
  • Try it when you’re alone first if needed, then carry the calm into company.

Challenge: “Cravings hit hard—especially for sugary or salty snacks.”

  • Cravings are often not about lack of willpower—they’re signs. Your body/hormones/gut are signalling.
  • Use the “pause” check: are you hungry, or stressed, bored, tired? Choose accordingly: maybe movement, a drink of water, connecting with someone.
  • When you do eat a craving, do it mindfully. No guilt. Notice how it feels, how you respond.

Challenge: “Seasonal produce is expensive / my market has limited variety.”

  • Do your best: even one seasonal item a week is helpful.
  • Frozen produce counts. Variety matters more than perfection.
  • Use produce swaps: whatever is abundant locally = your ally.

Challenge: “I have other health conditions (e.g., diabetes, thyroid, past eating disorder).”

  • Mindful eating and seasonal nutrition still apply—but tailor them with your healthcare team.
  • If you’re managing blood sugar, your medical/food plan may have specifics—integrate mindful awareness into that plan.

Why this approach supports your hormone health

Focusing on how you eat is more than “nice to have”—it is strategic for this phase of life.

  • Your body’s hunger/fullness cues (via ghrelin, leptin) can be disrupted by fluctuating hormones. Mindful eating restores connection. (The Food Cafe)
  • Nutrition’s effect on hormone signalling is well‑documented: nutrient intake, quality of calories, dietary patterns affect hormone sensitivity and bodily responses. (IFM)
  • Seasonal eating supports a diverse gut microbiome, which plays a role in hormone metabolism, inflammation, mood and energy.
  • Research shows that dietary patterns in midlife women influence risk markers for cardiovascular disease, insulin resistance, bone outcomes. (mdpi.com)
  • Mindful practices reduce stress and emotional eating, which means lower cortisol, better sleep, calmer metabolism—you’re supporting your body holistically, not just with food.

In other words: when you combine presence (mindful eating) + intentional food choices (seasonal, nutrient‑rich) you give your body an environment to respond to the transition—not resist it.

Final thoughts

You’re in a season of change—and that doesn’t mean things have to “just get worse” or you “must put up with” things you don’t like. This is an invitation to shift how you relate to food, your body, your nourishment.

When you pause before a meal, when you allow yourself to savour a bite, when you choose what’s fresh, seasonal, vibrant—you’re saying: I matter. My body deserves this. That message is powerful.

The changes you make won’t all happen overnight. You may have slip‑ups. You might forget to pause. You may reach for the phone mid‑bite. That’s OK. Patience + consistency beat perfection every time.

Start with one meal. Use the meditation. Choose one seasonal produce. Notice how you feel—not just immediately, but after the meal, after the day. Track: better sleep? calmer cravings? improved mood? Lean into those wins.

Your body is doing important work. It’s shifting, adapting, recalibrating. And you can meet it with kindness, awareness and nourishment—not just survival. The journey ahead is one of empowerment.

If you’d like, I can create a printable “Mindful‑Eating + Seasonal‑Nutrition Checklist” for you or a monthly seasonal produce guide with local‑friendly (Philippines) suggestions. Let me know and I’ll send it your way.

References

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Institute for Functional Medicine. (2025, April 22). Nutrition and impacts on hormone signalling. IFM Practitioner. Retrieved from https://www.ifm.org/articles/nutrition‑impacts‑hormone‑signaling/ (IFM)
Trainerize. (2024, November 20). Mindful eating for perimenopause: Managing cravings and balancing blood sugar. Trainerize Blog. Retrieved from https://www.trainerize.me/articles/mindful‑eating‑for‑perimenopause/ (trainerize.me)
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Please remember: This information is for educational purposes only and is not intended to replace professional medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. Always consult with your healthcare provider before making any changes to your health routine, especially if you have existing health conditions or are taking medications. What works for one person may not work for another, and your individual health needs are unique to you.

What Perimenopause Taught Me About Gratitude and the Body I Thought Betrayed Me

Lynne on October 20, 2025

It started in the dressing room of a department store. Under the buzz of fluorescent lights, I stood half-dressed in front of a mirror, staring at a body I didn’t quite recognize. The jeans I grabbed in my usual size wouldn’t button. My arms felt softer. My waist — was it even still there?

That’s when the spiral began. The quiet panic. The mental checklist: Is it my diet? My exercise? Am I just… letting myself go?

But then — somewhere between “Should I try keto again?” and “Maybe it’s my thyroid?” — another thought slipped in: What if this isn’t something to fix? What if it’s something to understand?

That moment — awkward, vulnerable, deeply human — was the beginning of a shift. The beginning of listening. The beginning of gratitude.

If you’re in perimenopause, you probably know this feeling: of things changing without your permission. Your body feels unfamiliar. Your moods are intense. And somewhere, a little voice whispers, What is happening to me?

Let’s talk about that. Let’s name what’s going on — biologically and emotionally. Let’s explore what it means to thank a body in transition. Not for how it looks, but for everything it’s still doing.

And let’s build a toolkit — of stories, science, and small rituals — to help you feel less like you’re disappearing and more like you’re arriving.

This isn’t a pep talk. It’s a reclamation.

What Is Perimenopause, Really?

If menopause is the full stop, perimenopause is the ellipsis… It’s the 2 to 10-year hormonal rollercoaster leading up to the end of menstruation. But that definition barely scratches the surface.

Perimenopause is the hormonal Wild West. Estrogen, progesterone, and even testosterone swing up and down like toddlers on a sugar rush. Some days you feel 25 again. Other days you wonder if you’re developing early-onset dementia (you’re not — but more on brain fog later).

What can show up:

  • Irregular periods (shorter, longer, heavier, lighter — sometimes all in one month)
  • Sleep disturbances
  • Mood swings and anxiety
  • Weight gain, especially around the belly
  • Brain fog and memory blips
  • Dry skin, dry eyes, dry… everything
  • Lower libido or changes in sexual response

And just to make things interesting, no two women experience it the same way. Some breeze through. Others feel like they’re unraveling.

So if you’ve been thinking, Something’s wrong with me, let me gently interrupt that thought: No, something’s shifting in you. And it’s okay.

The Body Rewrites Itself — And That’s Not a Flaw

Let’s break a myth: the changes in your body are not failures. They are biological adaptations. Your body isn’t breaking down — it’s recalibrating.

Here’s what the science tells us:

  • Fat mass increases, particularly around the midsection, not just because of calories or aging, but due to declining estrogen.
  • Lean muscle mass decreases, which affects metabolism, strength, and even balance.
  • Sleep quality declines, partly due to hormonal shifts, partly due to stress and lifestyle.

According to the Study of Women’s Health Across the Nation (SWAN), many of these changes begin 1–2 years before your final menstrual period. And they continue for a few years after.

So what does that mean?

It means that the belly you suddenly have isn’t laziness — it’s physiology. It means the extra effort it takes to build muscle or remember where you put your keys isn’t personal failure — it’s your body learning a new language.

And here’s the wild, revolutionary idea: we can learn to thank our bodies for this.

Gratitude Isn’t Just Woo — It’s Science

We throw the word “gratitude” around a lot, especially in wellness spaces. But here’s what real research says:

Practicing gratitude can:

  • Lower cortisol (your stress hormone)
  • Improve sleep
  • Strengthen immune function
  • Reduce symptoms of anxiety and depression

One study even found that people who kept a daily gratitude journal slept better and felt more optimistic — not just emotionally, but physically. Their bodies responded.

And in perimenopause, when your body often feels like an unpredictable roommate, gratitude is a way to rebuild trust. To say: “Hey, I see you. I appreciate what you’re trying to do, even if I don’t always understand it.”

Reframing the Symptoms

Let’s take a few of the most common perimenopause symptoms and reframe them through the lens of body appreciation:

1. Hot Flashes

Reframe: Your hypothalamus (the part of your brain that regulates temperature) is recalibrating. Your body is trying to keep you safe. It’s not malfunctioning — it’s adapting.

Try this: The next time you feel the heat rising, instead of panicking or hiding, pause and say, “This is my body adjusting to a new rhythm. Thank you for working so hard.”

2. Brain Fog

Reframe: Estrogen affects memory and cognition. When it fluctuates, so does your clarity. It’s not permanent, and it’s not a sign of cognitive decline.

Try this: Keep a notebook or app for reminders. Give yourself grace. Thank your brain for everything it’s holding — and maybe let go of a few things.

3. Weight Gain

Reframe: Muscle loss and hormonal changes affect how your body stores fat. Your metabolism is adapting, not quitting.

Try this: Focus on strength and nourishment. What fuels you? What movement feels joyful? Thank your body for still carrying you through the day.

Real Women, Real Wins

Sarah, 47, started lifting weights after her doctor told her she was losing muscle. “At first it was depressing — I felt weak. But now I can deadlift more than I could at 30. I have visible biceps! And I sleep better.”

Lena, 44, began tracking her cycle and mood fluctuations. “I used to think I was just moody. Now I see the patterns. I know when I need extra rest or more protein. That awareness changed everything.”

Tammy, 51, started a nightly gratitude ritual. “I write down three things my body did well that day — even if it’s just ‘digested lunch’ or ‘walked to the store.’ It’s helped me fall in love with my body again.”

A Body Appreciation Toolkit

If you want to start feeling more connected to — and grateful for — your body during perimenopause, here’s how to begin:

1. Gratitude Journal Prompts

Use these in the morning or evening:

  • What did my body do for me today?
  • What sensation or symptom taught me something?
  • How did I feel strong, nourished, or at peace?

2. Mirror Talk

Stand in front of a mirror once a week. Look at your body and say one kind thing. Even if it feels awkward. Especially if it feels awkward.

Example: “I see you changing. I’m still here. We’re doing this together.”

3. Movement with Meaning

Move your body in a way that feels good — not punishing. Dance in your kitchen. Stretch while watching Netflix. Lift heavy things because it makes you feel like a warrior.

Movement is a love letter to your future self.

4. Celebrate Small Wins

Did you sleep 6 hours instead of 5? Eat a vegetable? Say no to something draining? That counts. Write it down. Share it with a friend. Cheer for yourself.

The Gratitude Challenge: 7 Days to Reconnecting with Your Body

For the next week, try this:

Day 1: Write one sentence thanking your body for getting you through the day.
Day 2: Notice one thing your body is asking for (rest, water, movement) and give it.
Day 3: Compliment your reflection out loud.
Day 4: Do a joyful movement (even for 5 minutes).
Day 5: Thank a symptom. Yes, really.
Day 6: Share a win with a friend.
Day 7: Write a letter to your body. Read it out loud.

Final Thoughts

Perimenopause isn’t a punishment. It’s a passage. And like all great journeys, it asks something of us. It asks us to listen. To slow down. To let go of who we were and make space for who we’re becoming.

Gratitude isn’t denial. It’s defiance. It’s saying: I refuse to hate this body just because it’s changing.

So tonight, before bed, put down your phone. Take a breath. Place your hand over your heart or your belly or anywhere that feels tender. And say:

“Thank you, body. I’m still learning. But I’m listening.”

Because you — and your changing, beautiful, brilliant body — are worthy of love.

References

American Psychological Association. (2022). Gratitude and well-being: A review and theoretical integration. https://www.apa.org/news/press/releases/2022/11/gratitude-wellbeing

Harvard Health Publishing. (2024). Gratitude enhances health, brings happiness — and may even lengthen lives. Harvard Medical School. https://www.health.harvard.edu/blog/gratitude-enhances-health-brings-happiness-and-may-even-lengthen-lives-202409113071

National Institutes of Health. (2023). Research explores the impact of menopause on women’s health and aging. https://www.nia.nih.gov/news/research-explores-impact-menopause-womens-health-and-aging

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UCLA Health. (2023). Health benefits of gratitude. https://www.uclahealth.org/news/article/health-benefits-gratitude

Mindful.org. (2022). The science of gratitude. https://www.mindful.org/the-science-of-gratitude/

BMC Public Health. (2024). Body composition trajectories in perimenopausal women: A population-based cohort study. https://bmcpublichealth.biomedcentral.com/articles/10.1186/s12889-024-18405-0

Breast Cancer & Menopause: Empowering Women Through Awareness, Action & Advocacy

Lynne on October 8, 2025

To continue our Breast Cancer Awareness Month blog series, we’re diving deep into the intersection of breast cancer and menopause—a critical space where awareness, science, and self-care must come together.

October is a powerful time to reflect, honor, and take action. At MenopauseNetwork.org, we stand with women of all ages, especially those navigating midlife transitions, where hormonal shifts, lifestyle stressors, and long-term health planning converge. This season is a reminder that knowledge isn’t just power—it’s prevention, treatment, and survival.

In this edition, we highlight key insights from Dr. Marisa Weiss, a leading oncologist, breast cancer survivor, and founder of Breastcancer.org, who recently appeared on The TODAY Show. Dr. Weiss offered a powerful look at what’s changing in breast cancer care—and how women can take charge of their health journeys, especially during perimenopause and menopause. Here’s what we learned:

Breast Cancer in a Changing Landscape

While breast cancer is often associated with older women, a troubling rise in diagnoses among women under 40 has experts concerned. Dr. Weiss pointed out in her TODAY Show interview:

“More women are being diagnosed at younger ages—and they’re not benefiting from early detection because screening guidelines don’t cover them.”

This means we need to rethink how we approach risk, screening, and education, especially for women in their 30s and early 40s who are often overlooked by standard protocols.

Hope Through Innovation: What’s New in Breast Cancer Treatment

Dr. Weiss shared that the current era of breast cancer care is one of hope, innovation, and personalization. Thanks to cutting-edge science, we’ve moved far beyond one-size-fits-all treatment models.

Key Advances Include:

  • Targeted Therapies: Medications tailored to specific tumor markers
  • Immunotherapy: Engaging the immune system to attack cancer
  • Precision Radiation: Lower damage, faster healing
  • Less Invasive Surgeries: More options for breast-conserving treatment

Women today have more tools than ever—and clinical trials are a critical way to access the newest options.

Dr. Weiss advises: “Ask your doctor: Am I eligible for a clinical trial? It’s not a last resort—it’s a smart move.”

The Power of Genetic Testing

If you’ve ever questioned whether you carry a hereditary risk for breast cancer, now is the time to act. Genetic testing can uncover mutations in genes like BRCA1, BRCA2, and others that significantly increase your lifetime risk.

Why It Matters:

  • Determines which treatments will work best for you
  • Provides insight into risk for other cancers
  • Helps assess risk for your children and family members

Good news: The test is non-invasive (just saliva or blood), and most insurance plans now cover it.

Dr. Weiss shared that even young women—especially those with family history—should consider testing.

What’s Driving the Increase in Early Diagnoses?

We don’t yet know exactly why more young women are being diagnosed, but Dr. Weiss outlined several likely contributors:

Potential Risk FactorLifestyle Link
Increased alcohol useMany women in midlife drink daily or socially
Sedentary lifestylesDesk jobs and long commutes reduce activity
Poor sleep & stressHormonal imbalance and emotional burnout
Processed foodsInflammation and hormonal disruption

“Most breast cancers aren’t inherited. They’re linked to how you live, what goes in, on, and around you.” — Dr. Weiss

Your Breast Health Action Plan (Especially During Menopause)

Let’s take Dr. Weiss’s powerful guidance and transform it into a practical, midlife-focused breast health checklist that you can start today.

1. Get Your Screenings Up to Date

  • Women 40 and up should have annual mammograms
  • If under 40 with family history, ask about early screening or MRI
  • Include clinical breast exams in your annual wellness visits

2. Ask About Genetic Testing

  • Especially if:
    • You have a family history of breast, ovarian, or prostate cancer
    • You’re of Ashkenazi Jewish ancestry
    • You’ve had multiple cancer types in your family
  • Talk to your doctor about BRCA or multigene panel testing

3. Consider Clinical Trials

  • Access to new treatments before they hit the market
  • Could offer better outcomes or fewer side effects
  • Search for trials at clinicaltrials.gov or ask your care team

4. Transform Lifestyle Habits

Dr. Weiss reminds us that breast health = women’s health. Every change you make in your daily habits ripples across your health journey.

Healthy HabitBreast Health Benefit
🏃‍♀️ Regular ExerciseReduces estrogen levels and inflammation
🥗 Mediterranean DietRich in antioxidants, fiber, healthy fats
🍷 Limit AlcoholKeep to 1 drink/day or less
🚭 Quit SmokingSignificantly lowers cancer risk
😴 Prioritize SleepSupports immune function and hormone balance
🧘‍♀️ Manage StressReduces cortisol, inflammation, emotional strain

Start with one. Build from there. Movement is a great first step, as Dr. Weiss noted:

“When you start with exercise, you’re more likely to succeed with everything else.”

5. Know the Warning Signs

Breast cancer symptoms aren’t always a lump. Be aware of:

  • Breast or nipple changes in shape or texture
  • New pain or swelling
  • Unusual discharge
  • Skin dimpling or thickening

Listen to your body. If something feels off, don’t wait. Early detection is everything.

Why Menopausal Women Must Be Proactive

Menopause is a pivotal time in a woman’s health journey. It’s also a window of opportunity—to catch risks early, modify habits, and advocate for yourself. Hormonal shifts can influence your breast tissue, and in some cases, increase risk.

If you’re considering HRT (Hormone Replacement Therapy), talk to your doctor about how it may impact your individual breast cancer risk.

Celebrating Breast Cancer Awareness Month — With Action

This October, let’s go beyond pink ribbons. Let’s take real steps toward real change. Whether you’re in your 30s navigating perimenopause or well into your 60s redefining your power, this is your moment.

Breast Health Checklist for Women 40+

✅ Annual mammogram
✅ Monthly self-exams
✅ Ask about genetic testing
✅ Get moving (150 minutes/week)
✅ Eat more plants & healthy fats
✅ Limit alcohol
✅ Prioritize sleep
✅ Quit smoking
✅ Manage stress
✅ Know your body & speak up

Resources

Every woman deserves access to lifesaving information, early detection, and compassionate care. Whether you’re seeking prevention strategies, navigating a diagnosis, or supporting a loved one, know this:

Breast Cancer Screening After Menopause: Guidelines And Options

Amanda Paige on October 6, 2025

When menopause arrives, many women wonder: Do I still need breast cancer screenings? The short answer is yes—but how often and which tests you need can change after menopause. This guide breaks it down in plain language so you can feel confident about your health choices.

Why Screening Still Matters

As we age, our risk of breast cancer goes up. Even after menopause, regular screenings help catch breast cancer early—when it’s easier to treat. Early detection saves lives.

Think of screening as your safety net: it may not prevent cancer, but it helps you catch it before it becomes serious.

When Should You Get a Mammogram?

Different health groups recommend slightly different schedules. Here’s the simple version:

  • U.S. Preventive Services Task Force (USPSTF): Every 2 years from age 40 to 74.
  • American Cancer Society (ACS): Every year from 45 to 54, then every 1–2 years after 55.
  • American College of Obstetricians and Gynecologists (ACOG): Every year starting at 40.

👉 The bottom line: Most women should get a mammogram every 1–2 years after 40. Talk with your doctor about what’s best for you.

If You’re at Higher Risk

Some women need more than just mammograms. You may be high risk if you:

  • Have a family history of breast or ovarian cancer
  • Carry BRCA1* or BRCA2* gene changes
  • Had chest radiation therapy when younger
  • Have a lifetime breast cancer risk of 20% or more (your doctor can help calculate this)

In these cases, doctors often recommend adding breast MRI along with mammograms.

*What Are BRCA1 and BRCA2?

You might hear a lot about BRCA1 and BRCA2 genes when talking about breast cancer risk. Here’s what you need to know:

  • Everyone has BRCA1 and BRCA2 genes. Their normal job is to repair damaged DNA and protect us from cancer. Think of them as your body’s “DNA repair team.”
  • When these genes are mutated (changed), they can’t do their job well. This increases the risk of cancers—especially breast and ovarian cancer.
  • For comparison: The average woman has about a 13% lifetime risk of breast cancer. Women with a BRCA mutation may face a 45–70% lifetime risk.
  • Men with BRCA mutations also have higher risks of certain cancers, including male breast cancer and prostate cancer.
  • If breast or ovarian cancer runs in your family, or if you have relatives diagnosed at a young age, your doctor may recommend genetic testing (a blood or saliva test).
  • If you test positive, you can take steps such as earlier and more frequent screening, preventive medications, or even risk-reducing surgery. A genetic counselor can help you understand your options.

👉 In short: BRCA genes are supposed to protect you, but if they’re broken, your protection drops. Knowing your BRCA status helps you and your doctor make the best plan for prevention and screening.

What About Breast Density?

Breasts with more dense tissue can make it harder for mammograms to “see” cancer. After menopause, density usually decreases—but not always.

If you have dense breasts, your doctor may recommend 3D mammography (tomosynthesis) or sometimes ultrasound, which can provide a clearer picture.

Hormones and Risk

If you’re taking hormone replacement therapy (HRT) after menopause, your breast cancer risk may be a bit higher. That doesn’t mean you should stop HRT if it helps your symptoms—but it does mean screening is extra important.

How to Reduce Your Risk

Screenings are only one piece of the puzzle. You can also take everyday steps to lower your risk of breast cancer and improve your overall health:

  1. Stay Active: Aim for at least 150 minutes of moderate activity per week (like brisk walking, cycling, or swimming). Regular exercise helps regulate hormones, control weight, and strengthen your immune system.
  2. Maintain a Healthy Weight: After menopause, carrying extra weight—especially around the waist—can raise estrogen levels, which may increase breast cancer risk. Focus on balanced nutrition and portion control.
  3. Eat a Balanced Diet: Prioritize whole foods like vegetables, fruits, lean proteins, whole grains, nuts, and legumes. Diets rich in fiber, antioxidants, and omega-3s may help reduce cancer risk.
  4. Limit Alcohol: Even small amounts of alcohol can raise breast cancer risk. The safest choice is to avoid it, but if you drink, try to limit to no more than one drink per day.
  5. Don’t Smoke: Smoking is linked to many cancers, including breast cancer. Quitting at any age has health benefits.
  6. Manage Stress: Chronic stress can affect your immune system and hormone balance. Mind-body practices like yoga, meditation, journaling, or deep breathing may help.
  7. Get Enough Sleep: Aim for 7–8 hours of quality sleep. Poor sleep can disrupt hormone levels and overall health.
  8. Know Your Family History: If breast or ovarian cancer runs in your family, share that information with your doctor. You may qualify for genetic counseling, early screening, or preventive strategies.
  9. Consider Risk-Reducing Medications: For women at very high risk, medications such as tamoxifen or raloxifene may help lower risk. Your doctor can discuss whether this is an option for you.
  10. Regular Checkups: Keep up with yearly wellness visits. Discuss any breast changes or health concerns with your healthcare provider right away.

Some high-risk women may also consider genetic counseling or even risk-reducing medications (your doctor can explain these options).

Insurance and Access

Most insurance plans, including Medicare, cover mammograms. Still, access can vary. If cost or location is a concern, ask your doctor or local health organizations about free or low-cost screening programs.

Your Personal Plan

Every woman’s health is different. The best screening plan is one that fits your risk, your age, and your comfort level.

👉 Use this simple approach:

  1. Start at 40 (earlier if you’re high risk).
  2. Screen every 1–2 years.
  3. Add MRI if you’re high risk.
  4. Review your plan regularly with your doctor.

Don’t wait—schedule your mammogram today or talk to your doctor about what’s right for you. Your future self will thank you.

References

American Cancer Society. (2023). Breast cancer early detection and diagnosis. Retrieved from https://www.cancer.org/cancer/types/breast-cancer/screening-tests-and-early-detection.html

American College of Obstetricians and Gynecologists. (2022). Breast cancer risk assessment and screening in average-risk women. ACOG Practice Bulletin, 179.

National Cancer Institute. (2023). BRCA gene mutations: Cancer risk and genetic testing. Retrieved from https://www.cancer.gov/about-cancer/causes-prevention/genetics/brca-fact-sheet

U.S. Preventive Services Task Force. (2023). Breast cancer: Screening recommendation statement. JAMA, 329(5), 419–427.

Disclaimer

This blog is for educational purposes only. It is not medical advice and should not replace a consultation with your healthcare provider. Always talk with your doctor or a qualified health professional about your personal risk factors and the best screening plan for you.

Breast Health in Perimenopause: What Changes to Expect

Lynne on October 1, 2025

Let’s talk about your breasts. Yes, they change—sometimes subtly, sometimes dramatically—during perimenopause. And if you’ve been wondering why they feel sore, lumpy, or just… different lately, you’re not alone. This phase of life ushers in a tidal wave of hormonal shifts that ripple through nearly every system in your body, and your breasts are no exception.

And here’s a timely reminder: October is Breast Cancer Awareness Month. It’s a powerful moment for all of us to pause, tune in, and prioritize our breast health. Whether you’re in your 30s, 40s, or beyond, this is a conversation that matters deeply—for prevention, early detection, and peace of mind.

In this article, I’ll guide you through what’s happening, what to watch for, and how to take charge of your breast health with confidence—not fear. We’ll talk about hormonal breast changes, when to schedule mammograms, how to do a self-exam that actually helps, and a practical tool you can use to track it all.

What’s Actually Happening to Your Breasts During Perimenopause?

Here’s the truth: your breasts are hormone-responsive organs. They listen closely to the ebb and flow of estrogen and progesterone—and when those hormones start fluctuating wildly (as they do in perimenopause), your breasts react. You might feel tenderness, swelling, lumpiness, or changes in density. It’s not in your head. It’s hormonal.

As estrogen surges or dips from month to month and progesterone starts its slow decline, your breast tissue begins to shift:

  • Glandular tissue begins to shrink (a process called lobular involution)
  • Fatty tissue becomes more prominent
  • Connective tissue may increase in stiffness or thickness
  • Some women experience more fibrocystic changes—think of them as hormone-driven lumps and bumps

These changes aren’t dangerous by default, but they can make it harder to know what’s “normal” versus what’s worth checking out. That’s where awareness—and tracking—comes in.

Common Breast Symptoms in Perimenopause (and What They Mean)

Let’s walk through a few typical breast symptoms and whether they’re expected—or something you should bring to your doctor:

1. Tenderness or Soreness

Often cyclical, but during perimenopause, the timing can feel random. You may notice aching, swelling, or sensitivity that lingers longer than before. This is largely due to shifting estrogen levels and is usually benign.

2. Size and Shape Changes

Your breasts may start to feel softer or look less perky. Welcome to the effects of lower estrogen and decreased collagen production. This is a normal part of breast aging.

3. Lumpiness or Nodules

These could be fibrocystic changes—fluid-filled cysts or dense tissue bands that come and go with your cycle (even if that cycle is irregular). They’re typically harmless but can mask or mimic more concerning lumps, so it’s smart to track them.

4. Nipple Changes or Discharge

A little sensitivity? Okay. Clear or milky discharge? Sometimes normal. But discharge that’s bloody, spontaneous, or only from one nipple? That’s a red flag. So is nipple retraction or skin puckering.

5. Persistent Lumps

A lump that sticks around beyond a cycle or grows in size? Definitely get that checked.

Bottom line: Listen to your body. If something feels different, speak up.

What About Mammograms? When to Start and What to Know

Most women begin mammograms around age 40, depending on risk factors. But here’s the nuance: breast density matters.

Dense breasts (common in perimenopausal women) can make it harder to detect tumors through traditional mammography. Newer 3D mammography (tomosynthesis) helps, offering a clearer view through overlapping tissue. Ask your provider about it—especially if you have dense breast tissue.

If you’re using hormone therapy (HRT), know this: studies have shown that HRT can increase breast density and, in some women, breast cancer risk. It’s not a one-size-fits-all scenario. Your risk is influenced by your family history, lifestyle, and personal health history. That’s why personalized screening plans matter.

General screening recommendations:

  • Ages 40–49: Talk with your provider about your individual risk factors
  • Ages 50–74: Mammograms every 1–2 years
  • Higher risk? You may need earlier and more frequent screenings

Self-Exams: Do They Still Matter?

Yes—if you do them with awareness, not anxiety.

The goal isn’t to turn yourself into a breast radiologist. It’s to know what your normal feels like so that if something changes, you’ll notice.

How to Do a Breast Check That Works:

  1. Look: In front of a mirror with arms at your sides, then overhead, and on your hips. Watch for dimpling, puckering, or skin/nipple changes.
  2. Feel (Lying Down): Use your fingertips to make small circles across your entire breast, using light, medium, and firm pressure.
  3. Feel (Standing Up): Do the same in the shower—it’s often easier when your skin is wet.

Make a note of anything unusual: a lump, a spot of tenderness, a change in texture. Then check again the next month. Tracking changes is more powerful than panicking about any single bump.

Track It to Trust It: Breast Health Calendar

Let’s be real: when you’re juggling cycles that are all over the place, plus work, family, and maybe hot flashes at 3 a.m., remembering what your breasts felt like last month isn’t easy.

That’s why I created a Breast Health Tracking Calendar. It’s a simple tool to log what you’re feeling, when you’re feeling it, and how it changes over time. It helps you:

  • Spot patterns and triggers (hello, PMS or HRT?)
  • Track mammogram dates and self-checks
  • Share clear info with your provider if needed

👉Download the free Breast Health Tracking Calendar here.

When to Call Your Provider

You don’t need to panic about every change—but you also don’t want to ignore real warning signs. Call your doctor if you notice:

  • A lump that doesn’t go away after one menstrual cycle
  • Nipple discharge that’s bloody or spontaneous
  • Skin changes like dimpling, puckering, redness, or scaling
  • New asymmetry or sudden changes in size
  • Pain that’s localized, persistent, and not related to your cycle

The Big Picture

Your breasts will change as you move through perimenopause—and that’s okay. What matters is understanding why it’s happening, staying informed, and checking in with yourself regularly.

Perimenopause doesn’t have to mean confusion or fear. With the right knowledge and tools—like regular self-checks, appropriate screening, and a breast health calendar—you can navigate these changes with calm and clarity.

You’ve got this.

Please remember: This information is for educational purposes only and is not intended to replace professional medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. Always consult with your healthcare provider before making any changes to your health routine, especially if you have existing health conditions or are taking medications. What works for one person may not work for another, and your individual health needs are unique to you.